7. Romance & Matrimonial Scams

● The Real Scenario: An individual matches with an attractive NRI or foreign national on a dating app (like Tinder or Bumble) or matrimonial site who quickly claims to be deeply in love.
● How It Works: After weeks of building an emotional bond, the scammer claims they have sent an expensive luxury gift (like an iPhone or gold watch) or are flying to India to visit. Suddenly, a fake "customs officer" calls from Delhi airport, demanding Rs 75,000 in "customs clearance fees" to release the packages or the traveler.
● How to Avoid: Never send money to someone you have never met face-to-face in the physical world. Indian Customs never calls individuals to demand personal bank transfers for clearing gifts.
What Financial Industry Experts Recommend
Paul Fabara, Chief Risk & Client Services Officer at Visa states, “Visa similarly describes romance scams as schemes where fraudsters create fake identities, establish trust and affection, and then exploit that relationship to pressure victims into sending money.”
The Scale of Romance and Matrimonial Fraud (2026 Data)
● The Matrimonial Sector Surge: According to cybercrime cell statistics, romance fraud disguised as matrimonial proposals makes up over 22% of all targeted cyber-extortion complaints filed by urban professionals and single individuals in India.
● Deep Financial Devastation: Because these scams rely on long-term emotional manipulation, the financial damage is incredibly high. Individual losses regularly range between ₹3 Lakhs to ₹45 Lakhs, as victims frequently exhaust their personal savings or take out emergency loans to "rescue" their partner
● AI Deepfakes as a Trust Builder: A defining trend of 2026 is the use of real-time AI video filters. Scammers are now willing to go on brief video calls, using AI overlays to match the attractive persona in their profile pictures, which completely disarms the victim's skepticism.
● The "Customs Officer" Trap: The fake customs clearance trick remains the most effective exit strategy for the scammer. Over 70% of romance fraud financial losses occur during this specific phase, where a sudden administrative "emergency" is manufactured at major transit hubs like Delhi (IGI) or Mumbai airports.

